Loneliness and the thoughts it brings in.

Loneliness is the feeling of being isolated. This feeling of isolation appears when you think something is not right with your life, when you think people will not understand what you want to say, when you have trouble fitting in, when you miss someone, when there's a breakdown in your family or when you have lost someone, when you are emotionally frustrated, when you are extremely demotivated. The result is you feel empty, alone or unwanted. Loneliness, according to many experts, is not necessarily about being alone. Instead, it is the perception of being alone and isolated that matters most. For example, a college freshmen might feel lonely despite being surrounded by roommates and other peers. At such a moment instead of feeling low and disconnected and thinking about everything in the world, what you can do is shift the entire focus of your mind on yourself. When we let our focus shift away from people and things around us, we end up thinking critically about our own selves, the thing that we do the least normally. If you make friends with yourselves you will never be alone. It can be a great sort of replenishment. Its about thinking all the positive things about you and draining out all the negativity. At such a time you just cannot loose. The most beautiful people are the ones who have known defeat, known loss, known suffering, known struggle and yet have managed to keep there spirits high and have found their way out of the depths. You need to be able to recharge on your own sometimes. Knowing yourself is the toughest job and you cannot do that without a break. Remember sometimes you may feel lost and alone, but God knows exactly where you are, and He has a good plan for your life. :) :)

The Comfort Of Lies

Lying is probably one of the most common wrong acts that we carry out but it is an unavoidable part of human nature. Most people would say that lying is always wrong, except when there's a good reason for it - which means that it's not always wrong. So Lies are acceptable and morally correct when you have a strong reason to lie which can be to protect someone or in doing something good with a simple lie. But if you look deeply in the realm of lying, you will notice that sometimes people lie not to deceive others, but to deceive themselves. Lying creates all the COMFORT stories and people prefer to live in their own comforted twisted version rather than believing the reality. They tend to give themselves illusions and little stories to make life more bearable. People also lie because of the thought that others might hate them on reception of the truth, so for them its better to lie and be normal rather than saying the truth and be hated upon. So Lying is not all that easy. Well Lies are not the solution always but it is better in acute cases where the truth will be a lot devastating either for others or for themselves. My guess is there are some very fragile egos, some very hurt people underneath and the lies are built up to protect that. So the next time if you see someone lying try not to be judgemental but to understand the cause of the lies and then act on it. :-) ;-)

Happiness And Sadness are momentarily.

Happiness and Sadness are part and parcel of life. But the most important goal should be to not indulge ourselves into it so much that at times we start feeling lost and depressed. A thing to remember is that to not get attached to things/people so much that living without it/them might seem impossible and extremely hard. We all arrive at a point in life where we are confused about letting go and holding on. Things that are truly meant for you will be yours and things that aren't will never be. No matter how much hard you try to hold on or save, it will eventually vanish. The solution is being a STOIC. Being Stoic is being calm and almost without any emotion. True happiness is to enjoy the present, without anxious dependence upon the future, not to amuse ourselves with either hopes or fears but to rest satisfied with what we have, which is sufficient.

You Unveil the mask of Consciousness only when you are Drunk. Rest of the time you are just pulling up an Act.

When people are normal they tend to be conscious about what they are doing, about what other people are thinking about them, how do they look, how should they behave. But when you are drunk you tend to loose this consciousness. You become all you want to be. You Unveil the mask of Consciousness and Become the real you. The self that you have been hiding for so long. And that is the time you are at your Best or your Worst. Rest of the time you are just bounded. Bounded and Controlled By Your Consciousness. But that's not bad. But Once in a While You should try to let yourself loose. Go with the flow and enjoy your Life.